Tuesday, October 20, 2009

My Positive Review for the last 90 days of Coaching

This is what I wrote about me now:

  1. I’ve started writing again; AND it’s GOOD!!

  2. I’m paying bills and moving toward being a paid facilitator.

  3. I’ve re-connected with several old friends

  4. I SING!!

  5. I’m doing great presentations with authenticity from my heart.

  6. I’m asking for help.

  7. I’m being less self-reliant.

  8. I’m stepping up quicker and more often with less hesitation.

  9. I judge less and love and accept more.

  10. I trust myself.

  11. I listen inside more (GURU)

  12. I’m more committed to me and to life and to my dream.

  13. I’m living my dream!

  14. I believe in me and my ability to do.

  15. I’m doing what I’ve been teaching and supporting the youth in doing (living my dream).


Next, while sitting in the hot seat (being the first one to volunteer to do whatever we were about to do) I listened to my peers tell me what they saw in me. Here is what they said (as written by Christine):



  1. Good writing-Impressive

  2. You Shine/Radiate

  3. You support Christine

  4. You gave 100% at ROPES

  5. You are a giving person

  6. You are more serious-not joking to avoid feelings

  7. You connect with your heart even more

  8. You are even more willing to be vulnerable

  9. You are willing to ask for help

  10. You have a great story-an amazing book (When Love Hurts)

  11. You are more confidant and know what you want

  12. You were willing to go door to door selling water to meet our objective

  13. You are genuinely caring and concerned; a big Teddy Bear

  14. You trust your team more

  15. You are willing to let go of appearances

  16. You are committed to yourself and your goal

  17. You always got 100% on Momentums and weekly activity

  18. You sing more and are on pitch.


That false modesty part of me found it awkward to sit there and hear everything they said. Truthfully, everything they and I said about me is true; and I claim it!!



Each of us took our turn in the chair reading what we had written about ourselves and then listening to what others had to say about us. It was easy to find kewl things to say about everyone of my peers. It has been a life-changing experience for me to spend the last 90 days with Mat & Pam Gover, Robbie & Sylvia Rainaldi, Diana Gourley, and of course, my wife Christine. My life is forever changed, as are theirs, and we got to share that experience with each other. Of course, the main catalyst for our change was from our two coaches, Jamie Utley and Douglas Phillips, and our two coaches.

To Jamie and Douglas, I thank you from the bottom of my heart for encouraging me to dream again. To my peers in the class, I feel sooo honored to have been through that with you and to experience you, too, changing. To my support team; Dan, Wally Myrna, Mary Ellen, and Angie; I thank you for taking this journey with me and sharing your insites.

I AM IN HIGH DEMAND AS I PASSIONATELY PRESENT THE PLAYBOOK SERIES WITH AUTHENTICITY FROM MY HEART!!

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